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Looking for a substitute for preserved lemons

Your suggestion is probably the closest substitute to preserved lemons.

Preserved lemons is a very distinctive taste and not everyone will like it, so before splurging on a presumably expensive jar of preserved lemons, trying the olive/lemon juice combination is probably a good way to see if you'll like it.

about 19 hours ago
Roland Parker in Home Cooking

First Time in London

Just be aware that Borough Market isn't open on Sundays (9.28 is Sunday). The market runs from Wednesday through Saturdays.

Indian food isn't really what people go to Borough for. I'm not even aware if there's an Indian stall (I'm sure there is one tucked away somewhere but I don't recollect seeing one, probably because the market can be very crowded).

Kensington Square Kitchen is a nice place for lunch. I wouldn't say it's amazing (depending on what you're looking for) but it's quite good. But it is very popular and can be crowded and you may not find a seat. However, if you're visiting the Natural History Museum you really should go to the V&A next door. It's one of the best museums in London and has a lovely cafe that's regarded as the best museum cafe in London.

What kind of special dinner do you want? If you want traditional high quality English and not far from that part of town, Rules is an excellent choice.

Christmas Day in London

I have only been to Wolsley. Lovely place with lovely food, but it is a bit on the fussy side. It's better thought of as a "grand" cafe with lighter meals rather than a proper restaurant. The cuisine leans French/continental.

If you want to try very traditional and superb English food, Rules is my favorite place. It has a long history and the atmosphere is clubby and while more formal than a gastropub, still quite relaxing. The interiors really are quite lovely.

Breakfast marylebone area

Depends how far you're willing to walk, but if 20 minutes is doable for you then my favorite place is Gail's Bakery on Bayley Street, not far from the British Museum. Fabulous pastries and breakfasts and coffee. They have the best cinnamon rolls in London (so I think). They have a website so you can check out the offerings.

Christmas Day in London

As others have already mentioned, London on Christmas day itself is very quiet. Restaurants make their Christmas fortune with all the office and social parties before Christmas, not the day itself. I have taken long post-Christmas lunch walks through central London and it's astonishing how quiet or even dead the city feels.

If you are staying in private accommodation rather than a hotel, such as a rented apartment with kitchen facilities (or at least a microwave), a good solution may be to load up on prepared foods on the 24th and have your own Christmas lunch.

The food halls at Harrods and Selfridges have a huge array of excellent prepared gourmet foods, including traditional roasts, meat pies and all the trimmings. Waitrose is also a good supermarket to find high quality prepared food. You could buy whatever you want, take it back to your accommodation and have a merry lunch of your own.

Sep 15, 2014
Roland Parker in U.K./Ireland

The Tyranny of the Home-Cooked Family Dinner  

I was going to post something similar.

Cooking has never been as easy as it is today with our access to such a wide range of food and labor saving devices. I've never understood why people mythologize the cooking of the past given it was so time consuming and quite often little more than a dreary diet of meat + starch for most people. Just read about the diets of poor Americans before WWII and it's depressing enough.

The simple fact is that we have to eat. If we don't we die. Why fueling ourselves should be so resented is puzzling. Because WE HAVE TO EAT.

What are you baking these days? September edition, part 1! (2014) [old]

After a long summer vacation in the US and settling my son into his new boarding school, I've now returned to the land of heat and humidity that's known as Dubai. Quite sad to realize this will be year #7 of missing out the glorious autumn of farmer's markets and fall produce and the fabulous American apple crop.

But I did make the classic purple plum torte from Smitten Kitchen (and from a famous NYTimes recipe). Baking the plums does enhance its flavor in a lovely way, so even mediocre imported plums from Spain magically turns into tart, translucent gems nestled in a sweet cake batter.

I did speculate on the ways of improving the recipe - not that it needs improvement but sometimes it's fun to do so. Perhaps substituting some of the flour with ground almonds and dusting the finished torte with a light coating of confectioner's sugar? Just a light coating, mind you, and it'd go well with the tart baked plums.

What's for dinner #320 -- The End and the Beginning Edition! [through August 23, 2014]

The end and the beginning. How appropriate. We are splitting up as a family very soon as my oldest stays behind in the US to start boarding school while the rest of us return to Dubai. It will be difficult but I'm thankful that his school is within 90 minutes of both sets of grandparents and they've promised to spoil him rotten on the weekends.

As for dinner tonight, I'll have to think of something, but it will utilize the wonderful fresh produce on hand. I've been baking and cooking through all the fruits and vegetables available at the farmer's market before I return to the desert and the land of dreary, flavorless imported produce. I want to make one last apple pie, even though it isn't apple season yet.

Surar-free cake??? icing?? and no dyes??

I am not an expert but what is the health benefit from using maple syrup over regular sugar? I only ask because I did a quick online comparison and the 1/2 cup of maple syrup called for in the recipe for cream cheese frosting actually has a higher calorie count than 1/2 cup of granulated sugar.....

That aside, maple syrup is an unique flavor and could work really well with a carrot cake / hummingbird cake.

Aug 13, 2014
Roland Parker in Special Diets

Surar-free cake??? icing?? and no dyes??

Before you start baking alternative and sugar free cakes, you should get the green light from the birthday child's mother. First birthdays are usually a big deal and the family may be anticipating something quite different (in this case a more traditional cake).

By the way, beet juice has a lot of natural sugar and as such beets are not recommended for diabetic people. I'm only pointing this out in case the child in question has some type of sugar allergy.

Aug 13, 2014
Roland Parker in Special Diets

Fascinating cooking tips and advice

Overlooked this one earlier. May have to give it a try soon:

Didn't know this - you can make hard-boiled eggs is in the OVEN! Place the eggs in a muffin tray so they do not move around, turn the oven to 325 degrees, pop em' in for about 25-30 minutes.

Advantages - Easy Clean up, Easier to Peel, and (depending on the size of your oven) You can cook a lot more of them at once :)

Oh, and one more! Does this really work?

To remove egg shells from a batter, use the remaining shell to attract the piece - and you've been using your fingers this whole time ;)

Aug 12, 2014
Roland Parker in Home Cooking

Where can you purchase good ground beef made with quality meat that tastes like steak?

I suspect you're probably in DC but if you're actually in the Baltimore area, then Eddie's of Roland Park, Graul's and Cirello's at Belvedere Square all have excellent butchers who grind their own beef. The meat is not sold in prepackaged amounts but you place your order to the butcher, who then wraps up the appropriate amount from the meat counter. Very old fashioned. When we still lived in Baltimore I bought all my meat at Eddie's and never encountered the pink slime problem.

J.W. Treuth in Oella is a wonderful family own butcher's shop that's convenient to anyone in the southern and western suburbs of Baltimore. They have their own abattoir as well.

Fascinating cooking tips and advice

A long list, to be sure, but some of them really do make you sit back and wonder why you hadn't thought of them. Others you just have to laugh at. Even a few make you tempted to cook something just to test them.


My favorite is the one for the dog. Throw some dog toys in a large bowl, fill with water, add some chicken/beef stock, then freeze. (slip out the ice block once frozen and take it outside). It'll keep your dog occupied outside while keeping him cool.

By the way, does adding a pinch of baking soda to sautéing onions really speed up the caramelizing process?

Aug 12, 2014
Roland Parker in Home Cooking

Best wording to offer chef services as a gift to bride & groom

You know the couple better than any of us do. But I would ask myself the following questions:

1. Do the couple live in a place where they can host a dinner party for six or so people? Many 20 somethings don't. They tend to live in small apartments or houses. They may not even have enough chairs for the table!

2. Do they have the requisite dishes and supplies for a nice dinner party? The young generation these days have largely disdained fine china and silverware in favor of a more casual lifestyle. Of course one can have a dinner on regular dishes, but the couple may feel awkward and not interested in having a "nice" dinner when they'd rather have friends over for a casual lasagna and salad dinner. Or a barbecue.

3. Do they have the disposable income to fund the food (and presumably alcohol) expenses for a "nice" dinner? Many young people now pay at least partially for their wedding, and they may not want to spend a few hundred dollars on a meal so soon after their wedding and honeymoon.

When I was in my late 20s all of my friends were in graduate school or had just completed graduate school and had large debts to pay off, or were saving for their down payment or had just moved to an expensive city with a high cost of living. Or most of the above at once! Many of us may have had nice incomes but high expenditures and spending a lot of money on a nice dinner party was not something that would have appealed to us, especially when a simple roast chicken and a creative pasta dish would have done the trick just as well.

4. Last but not least, putting a cap of six people for the dinner party may cause problems you may not anticipate, especially if the couple has a sizable crowd of friends that are used to socializing together.

In all honesty I agree with most people's sentiments. I would not be happy to receive this "gift" unless the food cost was included. Any gift that requires you to spend substantial money (and I assume this "nice" dinner you have in mind includes expensive ingredients and wine) is really not a gift but an imposition.

How would you feel if you offered the couple this "gift" but they never took it up?

French food - boring? Yes, according to the Daily Telegraph

The British Daily Telegraph had an interesting article on French food:


The comments section afterwards is also worth a read. Many commenters had lived in France and agreed with the article's premise and added that the quality of typical French restaurant was mediocre, but supermarkets had very good quality food on offer.

So much of the discussion on this forum is geared towards the higher end Parisian restaurants, understandably enough. And whenever we travel to France I've always done research ahead and we eat very well, so I don't know what the situation really is like for run of mill places. For the experts out there, would you agree with the writer that the bog standard restaurants are worse than even (gasp) comparable restaurants in the UK? The arguments the writer makes against French restaurants is not just the quality of food, but the lack of imagination in the food itself, at least compared to the apparently much more dynamic food scene in the UK.

Any thoughts?

Jul 15, 2014
Roland Parker in France

Domestically Disabled

For someone who's just learning how to cook, recipes provide structure and guidance. I think suggesting that someone learn to cook via techniques first is like suggesting a non-swimmer learn swimming by jumping into the deep end of a swimming pool. Cooking can be overwhelming for people who have minimal exposure to it. Sometimes it's best to start out at the shallow end and work your way up to the deep end as you gain confidence that way.

When people ask me about how to cook, I tell them find an excellent but simple cookbook or two and cook from it, such as the Joy of Cooking. Follow the recipes (they're there for a purpose), accept that you will make some mistakes along the way, and see why some things work and why other things don't work. Once you've mastered the recipes, you're halfway to mastering the techniques. Once you've mastered the techniques then you don't need recipes anymore.

Famous Regional Food you find embarrassing or disgusting?

Lake trout is known in Baltimore. Why? Because if you spend any amount of time driving through the city you're bound to stumble onto signs for lake trout. And it's been mentioned in newspaper articles. On the internet. And on chowhound. And in casual conversations I've had with other Baltimoreans about Baltimore regional food. In short, it's mentioned and it's known as a Baltimore tradition, even if it's primarily eaten by working class black Baltimoreans.

But I draw the line at fries with gravy because it's a food item I've never heard people talk about or mention or write about or discuss as a Baltimore tradition, whether on chowhound or in the Sun or the Baltimore Magazine or at dinner tables. And according to CharmedGirl above, I'm not the only one.

Famous Regional Food you find embarrassing or disgusting?

The concept is wonderful, but it's mediocre fudgy chocolate on a stale cookie. I don't mind the mediocre part, but the quantity of chocolate is way too much for the cookie and it's also very sweet.

It's been around Baltimore as long as I can remember and does have its following. I had a friend whose father would buy a box of Berger's but only had them dipped in cold milk, which helped temper some of the sweetness.

Jul 09, 2014
Roland Parker in General Topics

Famous Regional Food you find embarrassing or disgusting?

I will retract the word. Disgusting is the wrong word, borrowing from the title of this thread. Bergers has its followers, I just find the cookies mediocre, but I still accept them as a Baltimore food.

Famous Regional Food you find embarrassing or disgusting?

I have heard of lake trout even if I've never sampled them. And of course we all know about crab cakes and steamed crabs. And Berger's cookies. And the Baltimore Flower Mart had a long standing tradition of lemons with peppermint. These things can legitimately be called "Baltimore" traditions. They're written about in papers and magazines and mentioned with enough frequency not only on chowhound but elsewhere.

But I can genuinely tell you that I have never heard of fries with gravy until you posted about it. I grew up in a household that cared about food and Maryland traditions and my mother is from a family with roots in Baltimore dating to well before the Civil War. I don't doubt that in some areas of the Baltimore region fries with gravy may have been popular, but it's certainly not something talked about city-wide.

It's not so much a question of availability but a question of recognition. Berger's cookies are not that commonly seen and not necessarily eaten by that many people, but it's known enough that it can be called a Baltimore food item. That's the difference. Fries with gravy? Not necessarily so.

Jul 09, 2014
Roland Parker in General Topics

Famous Regional Food you find embarrassing or disgusting?

I need to disagree with you. I grew up in Baltimore and it's still home and never once heard or saw fries with gravy. Not in the newspaper or magazine articles on local food, not in local restaurants, nor was it talked about.

It may be a speciality of certain restaurants, areas or demographics of Baltimore but one can't call it a city or region tradition.

A Baltimore "regional" food that I find disgusting is Berger's cookies. People know of it, but few buy and eat it and for good reasons.

Jul 09, 2014
Roland Parker in General Topics

best crab cakes in maryland - any suggestions?

Ooh. I hadn't seen that. Oops. As another once frequent (but sadly recently AWOL) poster said, it's always been difficult to have a frank discussion about Lexington Market on this forum.

The best crabcakes in Baltimore are always in your mother's kitchen, but obviously that presents a problem for visitors ;)

I have had excellent crabcakes at Koco's Pub in Hamilton/Lauraville, the Corner Stable on York Road in Lutherville, Jimmy's on Holabird Avenue and Michael's Cafe on York Road in Lutherville.

best crab cakes in maryland - any suggestions?

I have to agree. Some people on this board love Lexington Market and Faidleys, but I've never been impressed with Faidleys and let's not even get into Lexington or we'll end up having the thread moderated as is often the case.

There are much better options in Baltimore.

what recipes do u go 2 when u crave fast food?

The OP posted using text speak. I couldn't resist responding :)

Frozen custard vs. Soft serve - and can you make FC at home?

Ice cream made without eggs was once called Philadelphia style ice cream, and it was used mostly for fruit based ice creams. It's basically frozen whipped cream.

But custard based ice cream with the eggs has always been the norm, at least among home cooks and higher grade ice cream producers, whether Haagen Daaz, Ben & Jerry's and local ice cream parlors (I can't speak for generic brand ice creams). I have scores of older cookbooks and pretty much all the ice cream recipes call for eggs, except for the small handful that specifically highlight they don't use eggs and those are usually the strawberry or other fruit ice creams.

what recipes do u go 2 when u crave fast food?

I go 2 MickyD & order d fries. Mebbe 2 X a yr.. usu @ airports. & Im alwys sorry.

Jun 28, 2014
Roland Parker in Home Cooking

So just what is a "Gourmet Kitchen?"

Actually, kitchens are one of the most important selling factors for a house. You're right that most people are not chowhounds but families still prioritize a large comfortable kitchen, preferably with an adjoining family room or a combined great room environment. Even if they don't cook much, they still want the space to look pretty because that's where the family will still spend most of their time.

In my old neighborhood in Baltimore, the houses were all built between 1890-1920s. Large, graceful houses built at a time when kitchens were small spaces, along with several even smaller pantries, frequented only by the family's maid. Very much a "service" wing. These days, no matter how nice the rest of the house may be, houses with fully remodeled and enlarged kitchens sell the quickest and for a higher premium over houses that still have older and/or smaller closed off kitchens. It doesn't matter how much cooking is actually done, people *want* nice big kitchens, just as much as how 100 years ago people wanted formal, fussy front parlors.

Jun 28, 2014
Roland Parker in Cookware

Are you ready for Christmas giving?

Some of those things are very specialized food items. Snails? Octopus? Are you sure your family and friends will happily devour them? There's a reason why some people "will never buy this."

I can also see how in some households jars of jelly and homemade mustard will sit around unopened for months and even years. I love a good jam but even I only have jam on toast maybe 3-4 times a year and usually when outside the house.

All the food items you listed will certainly be very welcomed by some people. But as someone who loves cooking I'm also careful not to expend energy on specialized foodstuff as gifts when I don't know if the receiver will appreciate the effort. That's why when I give food gifts I usually stick with the tried and true, such as cookies or small pound cakes. Now, if you know your family and friends well enough to know that they will indeed devour everything you've listed, then feel free to ignore my post!

Jun 28, 2014
Roland Parker in General Topics

fun DC restaurant for English guests

Another option is to find good Tex-Mex. Tex Mex is rarely well done outside the US and our overseas friends love them.

SOS: Elegant tea reception for 200

I agree.

It wasn't that long ago when most wedding receptions were tea receptions, with just tea, punch, cakes, cookies and finger sandwiches. The idea that all weddings need to have a full served reception is a relatively new one.

If the invitations make clear that it's going to be a tea reception then people will understand and get the point. It certainly wouldn't prevent me from attending the wedding. I go to weddings for the bride and groom, not the food.

Jun 26, 2014
Roland Parker in General Topics