DOes anyone know of an elegant reasonable place to get married in or around SF? I am from Philadelphia and have no idea where to start. My fiancee and I both have small families so we're thinking 40 people and would like a sit down dinner. Our budget is 8,000 for everything. We want a good photographer(could use suggestions for that too), good food, and a beautiful setting, preferably outside. We did see the brazilian room in berkeley but that takes half our budget right there. We prefer to have the ceremony and reception in the same place but are open if the price is right. Thank you in advance for your thoughts and suggestions.