1. The Market Cafe @ Ferrington Village, casual, you can shop the stores and wander in the gardens. 2. Parker and Otis, among many shops and several other restaurants in historic Brightleaf Square, Durham. 3. The Cafe @ Nasher Musuem. See the art work and have an artfull lunch, close to Duke U 4, The Cafe at the NC Musuem of Art. See the collection, roam the gardens and have a very nice dinner. All these places allow you to make a day of it, if you want. I'd like to know where you actually do go.