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darn, and it was the only sort of offal that I'd consider eating again because it's so incredibly delicious.

That's what we do. It really does need so little to-do or manipulation to enjoy. :)

Should Orange County have their own board?

I live in San Diego but grew up in OC and have made the occasional jaunt up to LA over the years. No doubt LA requires its own board, but I have always wondered why San Diego gets it own board when OC doesn't. Size-wise, there's no question OC should get its own board if SD does. And I know this is much more subjective, but food-wise, as much as I love my new home, I find OC generally more diverse, progressive and dense than SD currently.

Many parts of LA and OC aren't really all that local to one another from a time and logistics standpoint.

And I also think that there would be more OC posting if OC weren't eaten up by LA, which it naturally is when thrown under the same topic.

Clearly, I vote yes. :)

Oct 13, 2014
inaplasticcup in Site Talk

Am I being too cheap? Splitting restaurant bill on family vacation

Yeah. In any group dynamic, it's nice if each participant tries reasonably to accommodate the group.

And to echo your sentiment, I certainly don't think saving dollars is in itself necessarily a morally superior act or always the best outcome all things considered. Though to be clearer, I don't think frugality is always about spending the least amount of money possible. Come to think of it, in my interpretation of it, it usually isn't.

Someone mentioned upstream something to the effect that the default majority position on CH seems to be that anyone who wants to discuss the logistics of their portion of the payment of a meal that doesn't automatically tend toward the magnanimous is branded cheap, or at least that's how I read it. I perceive it that way as well.

I'm ok with magnanimous people thinking I'm cheap. But in part, I wanted to voice what I think is the underrepresented perspective that, just as one might interpret self described frugality as thinly veiled cheapness, one might also interpret self described generosity in these kinds of situations as pretension and/or cluelessness of fiscal and other sorts. Neither is more or less flattering imo. People fall in all places of the spectrum between miserly and magnanimous, and unlike what I think is the implication of the majority responses on CH, the determination is usually not an easy either/or, and it's usually highly subjective.

As for the level of divergence in tastes in the instance of this particular OP, it seems to me that is a thing he has yet to discover. I hope he's pleasantly surprised by the outcome.

Am I being too cheap? Splitting restaurant bill on family vacation

Agreed. I think the ideal situation is a demonstrated good faith effort to be fair on both sides that leaves both parties feeling that they have been thoughtfully considered in the planning and almost invariably leaves both sides feeling more generous in their contribution overall.

Oct 11, 2014
inaplasticcup in Not About Food

Am I being too cheap? Splitting restaurant bill on family vacation

A question to clarify your first paragraph: Are you annoyed or are you graciously grateful when your friends go to the trouble of organizing a dinner in which they expect you to pay a pro rata share of alcohol they well know in advance you will not enjoy? Or can a person be both at the same time? ^-

That asked, I agree with you that the decent thing for people who order substantially more than others would be to acknowledge the difference and at least make an earnest motion to handle it accordingly even if the others will ultimately split the bill evenly for whatever reasons. I've been on both sides of that situation, and I've also been bothered in some way when people who've clearly ordered in significant excess of what I have ordered have failed to acknowledge it.

And this is not addressed to alarash specifically, but I find it interesting that many seem to think it cheap when a person would like not to have to pay for things they didn't consume, but they don't seem to think it cheap of a person to expect someone else to pay for their relative excess. I don't think we have to be so inflexible as to brand a person cheap, with all the negative connotation that comes with the label, just because they would like to spend time in our company but just don't want to or can't spend the kind of money we want to or can in a given situation or on a given commodity or experience.

I consider myself a frugal person. That doesn't mean I don't splurge with and for friends from time to time, it doesn't mean I don't tip well, and it doesn't mean I never pay for things I didn't order or eat without feeling slighted. Some people will call it cheap whenever someone wants to honestly discuss their financial situation or perspective because they think that's what cheap people do. Maybe that is what some cheap people do. But maybe that's also what some fiscally realistic people who don't have an issue with openly discussing the financial logistics of a plan do as well.

Children in fine dining restaurants? Watch this video

That was adorable. Great share, Berheenia. :)

Chris Cosentino Deeply Regrets Television Appearances

By the end I wasn't sure if he'd regretted doing that kind of food tv altogether, or if he just wished he could have done it without being called a sell-out even as he recognized all the things about his time in food tv that might lead a reasonable person to say that participating in it is selling out.

I don't think he's done processing/learning from that experience, but it was an interesting watch.

Coqueta (Pier 5, Embarcadero, San Francisco)

Good to know. Thanks!

And yeah - I always bring sweaters and jackets up there. I'm a So Cal weather weenie. Love the cool of the Bay Area, but can only handle so much. ;)

Coqueta (Pier 5, Embarcadero, San Francisco)

Thanks for the mouthwatering pics, Melanie. I'll be in the area in October, and I'm thinking about going with the fam. Do you remember if there's any patio seating?

Savory Use for Rice Krispies?

Maybe toss them in a little melted butter and sprinkle atop casseroles before baking?

Sep 19, 2014
inaplasticcup in Home Cooking

San Diego Public Market - RIP?

So this is happening...

http://sandiego.eater.com/archives/20...

Doesn't look like a farmers market, exactly. Interested to see how it develops. The proximity to Stone should help with traffic.

Sep 18, 2014
inaplasticcup in San Diego

9 of the Most Underrated Dishes at Japanese Restaurants

All of these look delicious, but I think the picture labeled geoduck is actually scallop (hotate). :)

Sep 15, 2014
inaplasticcup in Features

Is it OK when David Rocco pronounces Italian words correctly but not when Giada does it?

I'll offer even better, if unoriginal, advice: Buy low, sell high.

You can thank me later. :D

paella: fish sauce

I actually think very small amounts of fish sauce can add a good depth of flavor and added layer of umami to many dishes without the dish itself becoming fishy. I use it in soups, stews and braises that aren't Southeast Asian in flavor profile for that reason all the time.

But at the very most, it is to be used as a salt element substitute and not a liquid element substitute. It is, as many have mentioned, far too salty first and foremost, and then also too pungent to use as a substitute for stock. That would be like replacing your stock with soy sauce. The dish would be inedible.

I might add a teaspoon to the stock to add some depth of flavor to the rice, though.

Why you should refrigerate tomatoes and ignore anyone who says otherwise?

I refrigerate my tomatoes whenever they've reached the desired ripeness, at which point I find the refrigerator does a fine job of keeping them there longer than does room temp. Otherwise, it's on the counter until they do.

'Course I think they always taste better at room temp. :)

Sharing recipes with friends?

If I've written a recipe for it, I share. I figure that recipe can spread more joy and enjoyment in more hands. :)

Sep 08, 2014
inaplasticcup in Home Cooking

Uses for leftover tri-tip?

We love tri-tip pho! :)

Also an easy topping for salads and yummy in sandwiches. Sometimes I caramelize onions then toss in some thinly sliced leftover tri-tip and make cheesesteak.

Jun 25, 2014
inaplasticcup in Home Cooking

Chinese cold noodles that you roll out - sort of like a fruit roll up

I think that's chow fun, and if so, I'm pretty sure you can buy them at any 99 Ranch.

Mildest Kimchi I can buy in a market?

I think Joe Kim's is pretty mild, isn't it?

Marinating question

I think it's probably safe to marinate earlier in the day, but since the meat is cut small/thin enough to fit on a skewer, maybe not more than an hour or two.

As for skewers, I like to soak them several hours, and even up to overnight if I remember. Refrigerating them right up until you skewer and grill also helps mitigate some of the burn.

Jun 20, 2014
inaplasticcup in Home Cooking

The Downside of Sharing Recipes...

As mentioned a few times upthread, I think that people significantly modifying your recipe and then expressing dissatisfaction at the result without any acknowledgment or apparent awareness that their choices might have contributed to the unsatisfactory result is probably the most annoying thing for me.

But in the end, it's possible they could have followed my recipe to the letter and still not liked the result.

In either event, unless it's a typo or error on my part, it's just not worth defense, argument, or further discussion.

May 19, 2014
inaplasticcup in Not About Food

not sharing recipes: ....huh? [moved from General Chowhounding Topics]

I've never had that happen to me personally, but I was present at a potluck in which one person asked another for their recipe only to be told they'd have to pay them for it, it's that valuable. The exchange was comical.

I think some people simply have no idea of the depth and breadth of excellent recipes there are to be had out there today, for free, categorized and searchable by ingredients, cuisines, and techniques, that make any one of our individual recipes so much less precious and unique than we'd like to believe, specially if we'd rather guard than share them.

May 08, 2014
inaplasticcup in Not About Food

my friends have no social sense at all

I did also read that the friend is very proud of his freshly roasted turkey and is glad for the opportunity to showcase it. :)

IKEA 365+ non-stick cookware, induction capable & inexpensive, I'm impressed!

I've had my IKEA nonstick for years and it's served me well. About due for replacement now. Good to know the prices are still as reasonable.

May 05, 2014
inaplasticcup in Cookware
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Dipping into the well that is Korean cooking

I even use the oxidized stuff. It's generally a little saltier and slightly more pungent due to the oxidation and concentration from drying out, but I don't find it offputting, and it's not a health concern.

Oh, and I find the flavor holds up much better in the fridge, though I agree with many other posters who've said that they both keep for a very long time, refrigerated or not, from a food safety perspective.

Apr 24, 2014
inaplasticcup in General Topics

How often do you drink alcoholic drinks?

Anywhere from 2 to 4 times a week and anywhere from 1 to 3 drinks when I do.

Apr 07, 2014
inaplasticcup in General Topics

Is there a chance in heck we can get Fast Food chains to cut back on the salt on the fries?

I prefer my fries without salt and always ask for them that way. For me, it's about flavor and not health risks.

I notice a lot of fast food places have some salt solution soaked into the fries as well. Salt on top of that is just too much.

Mar 31, 2014
inaplasticcup in Chains
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Man vs Food's Adam Richman admits fans expect him to binge but says 'slimming down has boosted my confidence' -Mirror

I'm glad he's not doing that to himself any longer.

Are we supposed to be tipping much less than I thought in California?

Thanks for chuckles, BacoMan.

I'm a generally 20% after tax, after drinks including bottles tipper with a fluctuating level of disposable income over the years (I hate to qualify this comment with that statement, but the assumption is often made that people who say what I'm about to say are cheap, stingy, lacking empathy and uncaring about those less fortunate...), and I still ponder the kinds of questions posed by the OP. Although I participate in the system because I find it my most conscionable option at the moment, I find inherent inequity and indignity in the tipping system.

As much as I encounter it on tipping threads, I shouldn't be, but I am always surprised by how many of us assume a fairly lofty moral highground based on our tipping habits.

Mar 18, 2014
inaplasticcup in Not About Food

Overheard in Thai restaurant...embarrassing "Yankees."

Thanks, sunshine. I've have a loookay. :P

Mar 10, 2014
inaplasticcup in Not About Food