My wife and I just got back from Cape May, and I don't think that you could find a better meal anywhere else than we had at the Ebbitt Room. Not cheap, but well worth the price for the quality of food, service, wine list, etc. etc. We also ate at Tishas, which we had enjoyed on our last visit to Cape May, but we were very disappointed in it this time. I doubt that I will ever go back there.
I'm sorry that I did not know about Dominic's Place and Jersey Girl before reading the posts here today. They are going on my list for next time.