Hi there - I am also getting married in Charleston this spring. I have done a lot of research on caterers, and I am sorry to say that no one has mentioned the fantastic Fork caterers. Wendall at Fork will work with you on whatever menu you need, and the food is DELISH! I am also doing an oyster roast the night before. Have you had any luck finding someone for that? Someone mentioned Jamie Westendorf for oyster roasts....anyone? Help!